This is what Tomas said a couple of months before he passed, “When my mom does the ceremony with me I would like her to talk to me like she is saying goodbye to an old friend and remind me of all the times we had together and all the times she saw that I was clever or smart or the times where I comforted her, or the times when she would watch me look at the world and she wondered what I was thinking. I would like to sleep with her on the bed in the middle of the day and notice all the beauty that the day brings and I would like to eat with her at night and say thanks for the darkening because that is when my mom’s mind runs a bit wild and tells her what she should strive to do in her life. And I want to say goodbye and I want her to know that I will join the others and we are never far away and that she never has to be frightened because I will protect her forever”
That was very touching. Two of my cats recently passed away, both with kidney failure. I still cry everynight and miss them so and they passed away in Sept 2009 and Feb 2010. Nothing can ever replace the ones you love and lost. I imagine my cats being in Heaven with Jesus sitting on his lap and I’ll see them again someday. I do talk to them in case they can hear me I tell them how much I love them and miss them.