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Petey Lost His Dad To Cancer

Petey & Chris

On the early morning of October 19th, my friend Chris Staley passed away of cancer.  He was 45.  A few weeks prior to his death, Chris asked me to be his dog’s guardian.  Petey is a remarkable one-year-old Boston Terrier.  One minute he will be running around squeaking a toy and using my legs as jump off point and the next minute he will be curled up in my lap looking up at me wide eyed saying things like, “My dad had more pain inside of him than he voiced.  Why do bodies die?  It is strange having him kiss, hug me and sit with me with out his body.”

Within hours of sending an email to a select group of people that Petey is looking for a home I received close to thirty calls.  Every person either presently lives with a Boston Terrier, has a cancer survivor in the family, or both.  Petey went on trial with a family who has two Bostons in the family, they play a canine sport called flyball, allow the dogs on the bed, feed good food, go to extreme measures when there is a medical issue, have a cancer survivor in the family and use human training techniques.  They even have a Boston Terrier flag at the entrance of their house.  They love Petey! I couldn’t find a better home.  But when I went to go check on Petey he begged me to take him away.  He said one of the dogs didn’t like him, he didn’t sleep on the bed, and he wondered why grandma (Chris’s mom) couldn’t keep him.  Trance, one of the dogs in the family, licked me and begged, “Since Petey came here I feel normal.  He is my best friend. Please make him stay.” Despite the great home and Trances pleading, I took Petey away because that is what HE wanted.  In the car, Petey said he wanted “a gay hairdresser like dad”.  When I told him I wasn’t sure if I could find exactly that he replied, “My dad thought you had great hair.”

When we got back home, I didn’t feel right.  Stormy my Aussie tried to help, “Petey, fly ball is really cool.  You should learn that game.” Petey replied, “I want a gay hairdresser”.  “Alright” I thought, “I can find him that.” But the more I thought about it the more I thought Petey just wanted Chris back.  Not even the best gay hairdresser would be good enough.  So we talked and talked and we jointly decided to bring Petey back to the family that loves him.  Petey would start a new life different than the one he had with Chris.  On the car ride there Petey asked, “Do I have to forget about my old life now?” I told him never to forget, but to concentrate on playing and being happy.  He said, “What is my job if no one is suffering?” I told him to be a good friend to his new people and that Trance needs him.  When we got to his new home Petey ran around playing like he lived there all along.

Now a day and two nights later I ask him how is he doing?  Petey says, “I like it here.  It is so different.  I have to get used to being able to play whenever I want and not having to check on Chris to see if he needs me.  Instead I go in and ask Trance if he is feeling ok cause his body hurts but it is a different pain than dads.  Sometimes I ask Penny (the other dog) if she can teach me something or tell me about fly ball.  She still doesn’t love me, but I think she will. I slept on the bed but it didn’t smell like dad so I got off.  I miss dad more than anything but I am learning to feel comfortable here.  I am still very sad.  They are giving me extra love and I am learning that they care about me too.  I think the love I had for dad will grow for them with time.  Thank you Laura for looking out for me.  Please don’t forget me.  I want to see you because dad told me you would always be apart of my life.  I don’t ever want to forget that life.  I hate not being able to smell him anymore.  When ever I get sad, I remember what you said and I remember my dads smile and I play and pretend it is him throwing the toy for me.  I see him in spirit.  He is happy I am safe.  He approves of this home.  I am going to be ok.”

Petey (closest), Penny, Trance ****** New Family

Chris Staley worked as a hair stylist

at the Kevin Charles Salon at the Biltmore in Montecito.

Many loving prayers to his friends and family.

May Chris Soar and watch over us from the dimensions above.

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12 thoughts on “Petey Lost His Dad To Cancer”

  1. This was so beautiful. I am so happy for Petey – that he had such a loving owner, that he has you to speak for him, and for his new owners who will give him the wonderful second home he deserves. You are such an angel Laura. May Chris rest in peace.

  2. Oh my Laura, what a gift you have. Chris loved you so and is unbelievably
    Grateful you were and are in his life. I feel the same for me. Petey will
    Live a very happy life because of you. Simply amazing.

  3. Laura, amazing.. thank you for writing this.. I live for all your stories.. they are the best.. cant help wondering would a shirt of Chris’ help him so he has his smell there or will that hold him back? i think a play date with Fred would also help him keep some consistency in his new life and his old life. maybe brooke can go pick him up for a day.. he sounds like such a love.. love you soo much.. xoxo

  4. Allison Phillips

    Hi Laura–I called you earlier today (from Portland) after receiving the e-mail about Petey from a co-worker. I am not surprised to read that you had 30+ loving Boston owners volunteering to give him a new home! I am very glad to hear that Petey seems to have found a new family, and it sounds like Chris couldn’t have found a better person to be Petey’s steward during this difficult time. You seem like such a kind and loving soul–I hope you and Petey can both find peace after the loss of your friend. Best wishes.

  5. Laura,
    You do such amazing work with the pets & their people. I love all your sharings from them. It helps so many of us to read them.

    Thanks for caring so much for Chris, Petey, his new family (4-footed & 2-footed) and helping them through their transitions surrounded by your love..

    You’ll have to meet our new family member “Krystar Kitty”.

    P.S. I love your hair as well! 🙂

  6. Good psychics are sensitive to an individuals energy all of which use clairaudience, clairsentience or clairvoyance when reading for these. They will always be respectful of individuals energy.

  7. Is Chris the former hairdresser in Seattle…?

    If so, I thought he was the BEST hairdresser ever and I looked him up today to see if I could find out where he worked since he left Halo Salon…so sad to hear of his passing.

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